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Happiness is an attitude, stop comparing and focus, be happy and live your life.

The common thing which I hear from people is that the present is not good, I don't deserve this, I should be somewhere else, etc. But, if you analyze your life, you will find that only the attitude is not changing otherwise every single part of your life is constantly changing. The problems and issues you are facing in the present were not there in the past, and may not be there in the future also. Same way, the problems with which you were struggling with in past are no more now, they got solved or dissolved with time. Life issues/problems have different ranges, some are short span and get solved/resolved within months or maybe a year, but some take longer time. But every single of them gets out of your life ultimately. The thing which sustains with you is patience and your precious life.

The events happening in one's life is predestined, it never is/was what one expects from god, but it is always what God wants and is in good favor of person in the long run. We do feel the injustice by god many times, but I am confident that God can never be wrong. He is perfect and everything else is imperfect. Sometimes our miseries arise when we compare one thing with others, one situation with others, one individual with others. This comparison is the biggest blunder of our life. When a researcher does an experiment of comparative analysis, it is always a complete comparison, everything except the parameter in question is the same. Similarly, when you compare two situations/individuals you always consider only one parameter where you feel low then him/her. This comparison never took account of other factors that are different between them and thus responsible for the situation/scenario. In short, it is useless to compare in the first place. Every individual is different, God made them so, they are not the same, they have their shares of happiness and sorrows, and they live their predestined life. There is no point comparing, it will mislead your thoughts and conclusions.

As an individual, you will live your life individually and obviously different from others. Your actions and decisions mold your life and affect those who are related to you. One should always check that his actions/deeds are wise/responsible and mature rather than selfish/cunning/self-centered.

Stop comparing and focus on your life. Happiness is an attitude, you can't achieve it by chasing unrealistic things. Do observe and note what makes you happy: it can be as small as watching movies/reading books/listen to music and can be as big as doing charity work/getting promoted/big house/car/bank balance. But do try to know them. There are individuals who are more inclined to professional life and there are others who love personal space and life. Keep a track of your happiness/sorrows and know more of yourself, so that one day you are pretty clear as to what is there for you and what is not meant for you.

Be happy and live life.
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